Remember how last week, I told you it’s my birthday month? As a birthday favor, can I speak to you about Conscious Kink and how it can serve you? Waiting... I’m so good at asking for consent aren’t I?! ;) So much of my work is about moving
Aging happily under systemic pressure is an act of absolute defiance.
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Grief has a "sidecar" called guilt. It’s the poisonous lie that says if you feel joy while your loved ones are dead, you are betraying them. This lie doesn't honor the dead; it only depletes the living. Sovereignty means realizing that your grief does not
First of all, I offer you my sincere gratitude for sticking with me this month. This series of newsletters relating to family dynamics, Ancestral Healing and personal healing has felt intense and very necessary to write. Secondly, CONGRATULATIONS to you! Even if you just read these missives and took no
We are culturally conditioned to believe that when someone dies, the conversation ends. We are told to "move on," as if love is a light switch we can just flip off. But in the underworld of Griefcraft, we know that Death is simply a change in form, not
It may sound crazy (to some), but it's often so much easier to talk to the dead than the living. *oooooo Lydia Deetz vibes* Remember in the last newsletter, I suggested: “If none of this is available to you, do not despair. Sit somewhere quietly and ask for
We spend so much time looking backward at the trauma of our bloodlines that we forget to look at the sheer, impossible miracle of our own skin. The odds of you existing(exactly as you are, in this specific body, with this specific consciousness)are essentially zero. You are a
Have you been told that healing has to look a certain way? Maybe you’ve been told that "healing" is like being in a soft, cushioned room where a gentle voice tells you everything is okay. I think that could be true, but it’s not the only
We are born into a group of strangers and immediately fed a story about who they are and, more importantly, who we are supposed to be for them. This is the Family Myth. When you "break away" or "come out" as your real self, you aren&
Welcome back, brave witch/brujx. Let’s define Ancestral Healing and see how it can be beneficial to YOU. Ancestral Healing refers to the work one does in the present to repair relationships with the dead family/tribe members. This can entail ritual work like making offerings and conducting ceremonies
Your body is yours! But the experiences you hold within it are not. It is a living library of every war your ancestors survived, every silence they endured, and every displacement they navigated. When you feel a "clench" in your jaw when a parent calls, or a "