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Make Space for What Is Ready to Change
The Priestess Within Summit is getting closer. It begins August 3. Make the space in your calendar NOW. This summit is for you if you’re ready to be led by an elevated sense of self. Four days. Twenty sessions. A gathering devoted to ritual, sacred leadership, pleasure, embodiment, devotion,
Tiny Ritual Is Still Ritual
Theater and props are fun, but not necessary.
Stop Letting Symbols Boss You Around
Are you looking for signs, or are you hunting for validation? Let’s name it plainly. Looking for symbols is an ancient human tracking system. Not just for magical people. For all people. But how well that system works depends on how grounded you are when you read the trail,
The Anatomical Reality Lens
An Invitation to Sit Beside the Fire
As you walk the path of the Witch there will be many opportunities for you to enhance your relationship with yourself, which is your source of power. This is one of those opportunities. I had already planned what I wanted to share with you this month. Then Tenae Stewart (The
Sigils for Joy (The Performance Pony is Exhausted)
Are you tired? I’m tired all the time. I’m tired of the racists, rapists, and fascists clawing at power. I’m tired of witnessing massive, uncorrected injustice. I’m tired of extreme weather shifts, year-round allergies, AI moving faster than our collective ethics, my dishwasher breaking, perimenopause
Simple Sigils for Joy
Step 1: Somatic Unloading (The Tantrum) * Find a space where you can be unedited. * Close your eyes and locate the "bracing" in your body—is it a tight chest, clenched jaw, or frozen shoulders? * Let your body express the frustration of being tired. Shake your hands, stomp your
Here's the link to the Birthday Bash
It has been a monstrous time trying to fix back end problems having to do with the party registration. So I'm solving my problems by sending the link and code to all community members. On June 30th, tomorrow evening, at 8pm EST, we witches and magical beings will
You know that dark little thrill in your blood? Bring that.
You know that exact visceral surge of dark, exciting, cozy adrenaline that hits your bloodstream when you walk into a boring, sterile pharmacy and see the very first Halloween decorations of the season on display? Yeah! That little shiver of..........................anticipation (IYKYK). Even if Halloween isn't your favorite
Tech Ish Messing Up the Party
Hello Magical Friends, The last newsletter contained a form in which you could sign up for the upcoming Witchy Birthday Bash happening next Tuesday at 8 PM Eastern. This is a free event open to the entire Body Magic School. If you've already signed up, I lean on
Pathologize nothing. Claim the power.
Remember how last week, I told you it’s my birthday month? As a birthday favor, can I speak to you about Conscious Kink and how it can serve you? Waiting... I’m so good at asking for consent aren’t I?! ;) So much of my work is about moving
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My Birthday Battle Cry!
Aging happily under systemic pressure is an act of absolute defiance.
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I built a mirror in the dark. Meet Estrellita.
A new assistant oracle for the moments when your body, dreams, grief, and magic won’t wait for office hours.
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The Sovereignty of Self-Soothing
Grief has a "sidecar" called guilt. It’s the poisonous lie that says if you feel joy while your loved ones are dead, you are betraying them. This lie doesn't honor the dead; it only depletes the living. Sovereignty means realizing that your grief does not
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The Intersectional Alchemist: You are the Living Miracle
First of all, I offer you my sincere gratitude for sticking with me this month. This series of newsletters relating to family dynamics, Ancestral Healing and personal healing has felt intense and very necessary to write. Secondly, CONGRATULATIONS to you! Even if you just read these missives and took no
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Speaking to the Dead (and Surviving the Conversation)
We are culturally conditioned to believe that when someone dies, the conversation ends. We are told to "move on," as if love is a light switch we can just flip off. But in the underworld of Griefcraft, we know that Death is simply a change in form, not
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Talking to Ghosts Without Losing Your Mind
It may sound crazy (to some), but it's often so much easier to talk to the dead than the living. *oooooo Lydia Deetz vibes* Remember in the last newsletter, I suggested: “If none of this is available to you, do not despair. Sit somewhere quietly and ask for
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The Miraculous Stardust Self-Seduction
We spend so much time looking backward at the trauma of our bloodlines that we forget to look at the sheer, impossible miracle of our own skin. The odds of you existing(exactly as you are, in this specific body, with this specific consciousness)are essentially zero. You are a
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Grit, Bone, and the Rough Road Home: Why Real Healing Hurts
Have you been told that healing has to look a certain way? Maybe you’ve been told that "healing" is like being in a soft, cushioned room where a gentle voice tells you everything is okay. I think that could be true, but it’s not the only
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The Ghost at the Table (Unhooking the Family Myth)
We are born into a group of strangers and immediately fed a story about who they are and, more importantly, who we are supposed to be for them. This is the Family Myth. When you "break away" or "come out" as your real self, you aren&
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Marrow Magic: Decoding Your Bio-Lineage
Welcome back, brave witch/brujx. Let’s define Ancestral Healing and see how it can be beneficial to YOU. Ancestral Healing refers to the work one does in the present to repair relationships with the dead family/tribe members. This can entail ritual work like making offerings and conducting ceremonies
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The Vault, Somatic Alchemy: The "Marrow Search" Protocol
Your body is yours! But the experiences you hold within it are not. It is a living library of every war your ancestors survived, every silence they endured, and every displacement they navigated. When you feel a "clench" in your jaw when a parent calls, or a "
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The Ghost at the Table: Dismantling the Family Myth
It’s May! Much to celebrate, including Mother’s Day (here in the USA). Then next month, Father’s Day! Summer can be an opportunity to celebrate and nourish those major connections to Family. But what if that sounds fake to you or perhaps even foreign? I want to specifically